Monday, September 1, 2008

Bugunun Cocuklari -- Guvenli Bir Ortam Yaratin

Indigo ve Kristal cocuklar ikisi de muhtesem enerjilerdir ve dunyayla irtibata gecmek ve ona bakmak konusunda kendilerine has yollari vardir. Yasadiklari zorluklar ve misyonlari birbirinden biraz farkli olsa da, onceki nesillerin deneyimlemedigi bir rehberlik ve guvenlik ihtiyacini paylasiyorlar. Tum nesiller cocukken bakilmaya ve ilgilenilmeye muhtac olurken, Indigo ve Kristaller yuksek derecede empati ve sezgi iceren ozel yeteneklerini idare etmek icin ekstra olcude dikkat ve rehberlige muhtactirlar.

Indigo'lar icin guvenli bir yer demek, duzenli bir ev ortami (bunun degerini bilmiyorlarmis gibi gozukse de) , konusabilecek (kendileri cok konuskan olmasa da) ve guvenebilecek birinin bulunmasidir. Ev ortaminin geleneksel iki ebeveynli olmasi gerekmez - bir cok Indigo tek ebeveyn tarafindan yetistiriliyor, fakat rutine ve sevgi dolu disipline ihtiyaclari vardir. Iletisim yonu cok onemlidir ve size sirlari konusunda guvenebileceklerini bilirlerse, onlari sizinle paylasir ve yorum ve tavsiyenizi isterler.

Kristal'ler icin guvenli bir yer demek, ordan oraya kosturmayacaklari, sessizce oyun oynayabilecekleri, dusunebilecekleri veya size yakin olabilecekleri sessiz zaman gecirebilmeleridir. Her zaman konusmalari gerekmez, unutmayin bu cocuklarin sezgileri oldukca gucludur, fakat sessiz ve aktif olmadan gecirebilecekleri zamanlara ihtiyaclari vardir. Telasli dunyamizda bu zor olabilir fakat buna sahip olamazlarsa davranislariyla stres altinda olduklarini size bildireceklerdir, ya kendilerini geri cekerek ya da cok duygusal hale gelerek.

Indigo'lar, henuz onlara hazir olmayan bir topluma dusmus gibi gozukuyorlar fakat onlarin "simdi degisin" tavri olmadan donusum belki hic bir zaman gerceklesmeyecekti. Degisimi sessiz baski olusturarak saglasalar da, Kristal'ler daha az etkili olmadan daha sessiz ve yumusaklar. Indigo ve Kristal'ler dunyaya cok sey getiriyorlar ve biz su anda bu enerjilerle bir gecis halindeyiz. Erken yetiskinlik yillarina kadar uzanan katilimci bir ebeveynlige ihtiyaclari vardir, ve biz onlara, zamana, dikkate ve iletisime duyduklari ihtiyaci anlayarak ve guvenli, emniyetli ve sevildikleri bir yer yaratarak yardimci olabiliriz.

(Jennifer Hoffman: http://www.urielheals.com/Page.html)

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Today's Children--Create a Safe Space

Indigo and Crystal children are both wonderful energies and they have their own special ways of looking at and interacting with the world. Although their challenges and mission are somewhat different, they share a need for guidance and safety that generations before them have not experienced. While all generations needed to be provided and cared for as children, Indigos and Crystals need an extra measure of attention and guidance to help them manage their special gifts that include a high degree of empathy and intuition.

For Indigos, a safe space includes a structured home environment (even if they do not seem to appreciate it) and someone they trust and can talk to (although they may not be very talkative). The home environment does not have to be a traditional two parent household-many Indigos are raised by single parents, but they need routine and loving discipline. The communication aspect is very important and when they know they can trust you with their secrets, they will share them and ask for your input and advice.

For Crystals, a safe space includes quiet time in which they are not going from place to place and can play quietly, think or be close to you. They do not always have to speak, remember these children are highly intuitive, but they do need to have time when they can be quiet and not active. In our hurried world this can be difficult but if they do not get this they will let you know that they are stressed through their behavior, by either withdrawing or by becoming very emotional.

Indigos seemed to blast into a society that was not quite ready for them but without their 'change now' attitude the transformations may never have occurred. Crystals are more quiet and gentle and no less effective although they force change by applying quiet pressure. Indigos and Crystals bring so much to the world and we are currently in a state of transition with these energies. They need involved parenting that extends into their early adult years, and we can help them by understanding their needs for time, attention and communication and creating a place where they feel safe, secure and loved.

Jennifer Hoffman: http://www.urielheals.com/Page.html

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