"Our whole life (one incarnation that is) is like a play.
Just like you wouldn't mind to play an average person in a play (because what counts is to be part of it, right?) you also shouldn't bother about your "role" in "real" life, because it's not really "real" anyway.
We are all playing our roles that we had chosen at the beginning.
We are all part of the same energy, nobody is better, richer, nicer, wiser than the other.
Not at this level "